Question by **ArMaNi**: Abusive Boyfriend…..?
Ok, first of all could you please leave the rude remarks to yourselves please.

Here’s the deal:
Me and my bf have been together for about 2 years now but dating only for about 1 year and a few months. We have been living together during most of this time. One day he was going in my closet and ended up finding my diary that i was planning on burning as soon as i got access to do so. He read everything and he has been throwing it all in my face every since then(last summer). The diary is thrown away now but i have been hearing it so much that it has no effect on me. I’m just tired of hearing it, it’s gotten old. The actual hitting has only occurred maybe twice(twice pulling my hair and throwing me to the floor and once punching me in the my head, shoulder and back while in the car). I was pregnant during the last fight but after that, i knew i couldn’t raise a child around that or alone so i ended up getting an abortion(he wanted me to have it). Other times it’s only verbal abuse but he has thrown stuff around the apartment, not aiming at me. I have to be careful what i say, who’s calling my phone, and who i mention around him. He has called my mom and grandmother whores and says that i have no choice but to be one(not true). We’ve had sex many times where i didn’t want to but i knew he would get angry so i did it anyway. I’m an only child and this is the first time this has ever happened to me so i really don’t have any siblings or anything to talk about it with. We have arguments almost daily depending on what’s going on. When he gets mad at other people he takes it out on me since i’m the closest one here. He has a tracker on my facebook account that lets him know if i talk to any of my exes or guys that he knows like me. I can’t take it anymore and i want to leave but it’s HARD. It’s not as easy as packing up and leaving because i’ve tried to do that before and ended up coming back b/c he’s promised everything getting better. I feel i have changed my ways so much in the past year b/c i used to be outgoing and hang out with my friends but now i mainly stay at home, go to school, go to work, or study. I have risked so much for this relationship b/c i love him too much and i’ve never fought for anybody to stay with me. Any advice you could give me about your experience would help alot.

Please don’t give advice saying “Just leave” or anything like that because i’ve already tried that. It’s not that easy to just leave someone that you have deep feelings for. I would highly recommend advice from people that have been in this experience before but all advice is welcome.

Best answer:

Answer by Stina Lady
You need to get out. No doubt about it. The guy is a classic case of an abuser and it’s not going to get any better if you stay. The longer you stay or continue to go back, the worse it’s going to be. Arrange a place to live and leave, don’t look back. You are going to have to be strong for yourself and just go. I know it’s hard but women do it every day. Good luck.

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